Thursday, April 26, 2012

Harabi!


Hello there! Or Harabi (Hello in Swahili),

         I honestly never ever thought that I would be one to write a blog, but going to a country where wifi is quite limited (unless you get one of those stick wifi’s for your computer), I thought this would be the easiest way to keep everyone updated on my volunteer experience in Tanzania. There are tons of Internet cafĂ©’s around Arusha but you do have to pay per hour and lets face it, I’m going to be in a country that I've only dreamed of venturing  to since I saw The Lion King when I was like 4, so I’m not going to be spending my afternoons or weekends sitting on my computer and paying for wifi. Before I made the decision to go aboard to volunteer in Africa, I read many other volunteer blogs, which helped me in my decision, as well as calmed my nerves. So I thought it would be nice to keep the good gesture going and hope that my blog can help future volunteers with their decision and/or nerves about volunteering abroad. So where do I begin…
         A lot of people have been asking me why Africa? And why volunteer versus study abroad? Just like most college students, I’ve researched study abroad programs, when I could go, where, etc. I had a tentative plan to travel to Italy for fall semester 2011. As I was researching Italy and reading up on the programs, they suggest volunteering in the community to really engage your self in the culture and get to know the locals. The more I thought about it, I found myself thinking more about volunteering. I’ve always had a desire to go abroad and volunteer in a 3rd world country. Another reason for picking volunteering is because what I want to do with my degree (when I get it) is to work with kids and families that are dealing or have dealt with cancer. Volunteering abroad will help me build more of a base and get a different perspective and also get to be there for kids who don’t have a lot. 
         In September 2011, I lost my dad to leukaemia. He suffered from cancer, diabetes and manic depression for most of my life. My dad was first diagnosed with leukaemia when I was 9, went through chemo when I was 12 and was declared in remission 6 months after. I’ve been through a lot with my dad, more than anyone knows. In 2011 my dad’s leukaemia came back in more of an aggressive form called AML (Acute Myeloid Leukaemia). My dad made it through the year to see my brother Steve graduate from Ohio State with a degree in Welding Engineering, my 21st birthday, and my brother Jay and his wife Shara’s wedding. He was put into the hospital the day before my brother’s wedding and signed a DNR (do not resuscitate) order. Jay and Shara did a private ceremony in front of my dad and the family at the hospital the next day.  3 days later, my dad lost his battle to cancer.
My 21st Birthday 

Jay and Shara's Wedding in front of my Dad

My dad and I 
                  Watching my dad go through such an intense condition as well as some other stuff and losing my dad at such a young age has been very hard. Words can’t even fully describe (this post would be over 10 pages if I were to write it all out). Despite how hard it is, I have learned so much and have grown tremendously emotionally and mentally and have a compassion that I would not trade for the world. As the months started to go by, I started again to really think about volunteering abroad, researched programs and picked where it was I wanted to go. After going through the loss of my dad and recently heartbreak, I made the final decision to go. I remember always telling Mike (ex BF, now friends) “Let’s go to Africa and volunteer!” (I don’t think he thought I was serious). I am finally doing something that I’ve wanted to do for quite some time. It’s scary but I am ready to apply want it is that I know and learned from everything with my dad and apply it to this volunteering experience and future endeavors.
         So I will be travelling to Tanzania, Africa and will be volunteering in an orphanage for six weeks. I researched many organizations, read reviews and the organization International Volunteer HQ (IVHQ) really stood out to me the most. The reviews are great and it’s pretty affordable versus the others. IVHQ has affordable volunteer opportunities in 18 different countries all in Asia, Africa, South America, Central America, and Mexico. It’s also a great way to travel. You meet people from all different places, stay with a host family, weekends to travel around and explore, and most of all helping out the community and being apart of the culture. IVHQ also is on the ball by being there for their volunteers and making the volunteer experience the best that it can be. If you have a concern or question, they get back to you very shortly and after you sign up send you a huge welcome packet that helps calm your nerves. My welcome packet for Africa is 62 pages! Tons and Tons of information! They cover the entire basis from travelling, shots to get, money concerns, what to bring, what not to bring, fundraising and much much more. They also give websites, books, and movies to do further research before you go. I have been doing constant research and also have purchased my Swahili phrase book to start practicing common phrases. You can get around with English but they suggest learning Swahili since it is the national language. 
         As nervous as I am because I am going completely alone, (well there will be other volunteers but wont be meeting them till I get there) I am extremely excited to have the opportunity to go on this trip! My departure date is approaching fast! I leave the states on May 28th but don’t go to Africa till June 14th. Before I head off to Africa I am travelling to Paris and London with my mom, since I’ve never been to Europe. Then after London my mom is heading back to the states and I am travelling to Germany to visit my friend Kaila from SLO. Then head to Africa from there! This is the most travelling that I have ever done in one trip so I am STOKEDDDD!!! I will try my best to keep this blog updated as much as possible! Enjoy reading! 
Kwa heri!